tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8410616401062748816.post1727843226968423859..comments2023-11-03T04:49:04.527-07:00Comments on The Anti-Wife: Commitment phobia - how it feelsThe Anti-Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02027321787352577548noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8410616401062748816.post-9841400045309389202007-07-19T15:22:00.000-07:002007-07-19T15:22:00.000-07:00Kathie,We're all whackos in our own peculiar ways....Kathie,<BR/>We're all whackos in our own peculiar ways. Nothing wrong with that as long as we maintain our perspective - I think!<BR/><BR/>Anonymous Sister,<BR/>This is why you are the only other person in our family who knows about this blog. I think they're maladjusted and difficult. You and I are perfectly normal in a damaged sort of way.The Anti-Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027321787352577548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8410616401062748816.post-6626086168564697972007-07-19T14:58:00.000-07:002007-07-19T14:58:00.000-07:00Anything we say can and will be used against us by...Anything we say can and will be used against us by our family, which includes people who will deny everything we say, twist every word, and tell EVERYONE from complete strangers to family friends how maladjusted and difficult we are, all while making themselves seem like martyrs and paragons. So as far as I am concerned, we are entitled to a few quirks. What was it George Carlin said... "Just because you are paranoid, it doesn't mean they aren't out to get ya." Just because you are commitment phobic, doesn't mean they aren't out to entrap you.<BR/><BR/>;)<BR/>Anonymous Sister of Anti-WifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8410616401062748816.post-2492281127752461702007-07-18T06:38:00.000-07:002007-07-18T06:38:00.000-07:00I my god, Anti--I'm very similar in the friend thi...I my god, Anti--I'm very similar in the friend thing. I have a set of terrific friends who I adore, but we're spread out all over and when other people closer to home "pressure" me to do more, I tend to run the other way. I think I have to just get better at saying no and not feeling guilty when I do so then having more friends doesn't really mean it going to take me away from my writing and family...what a whacko, I am!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com